How can you know someone and yet not know them?
Tuesday, August 14, 2007
That was the question I asked myself last night when a really good and supposedly lasting friendship took a huge flip. 360 degrees. Chair legs up. I'm not one to pull the plug on someone right away and I'm all for difference in opinion. But when it comes down to insulting the very core of what you believe in and degrading the value of what you hold true in your life, that's enough reason to doubt the essence of what exactly is there left to hold the friendship together. 2 decades we've known each other, been frank and dead honest to each other. But I guess when you've lived very different lives, and somehow the other changes to have become the worst version of herself, somewhere, something gets destructed.
Maybe I should give it more time. I don't want to harbor ill feelings. They're just a waste of my time. But right now, at this very second and this very moment, I don't want to have anything to do with someone who does not respect the very thing that's made her what she is. I call that stupidity, ungratefulness, ignorance and pride. And that, my friends, won't get anyone anywhere.
Maybe I should give it more time. I don't want to harbor ill feelings. They're just a waste of my time. But right now, at this very second and this very moment, I don't want to have anything to do with someone who does not respect the very thing that's made her what she is. I call that stupidity, ungratefulness, ignorance and pride. And that, my friends, won't get anyone anywhere.
posted by maudester @ 1:15 PM
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